Incontinence

Ever since the age of about 22 I have had to come to terms with the fact of my adult incontinence. Because of the severity of my seizures I lose control and wet myself. At first I would just cover my bed and furniture with incontinence pads to protect everything. But then it got to be a hassle when I went to other peoples houses. For a while I would fight the idea of wearing a diaper. After being in the hospital a few times the nurses made sure to put me in diapers because of my incontinence. After this I said fine I might as well get used to the idea, because it will probably be this way for the rest of my life. So now I have been wearing adult diapers for about 18 years now.

  At first I worried about how to hide the fact that I had this problem. Simply because even though I had to accept my diapers, I still felt somewhat ashamed. Only a few close family members knew about my incontinence, and I had held it a secret from all of my friends in fear of rejection.

  Later on in life I started to open up about the fact I had to wear diapers. I have lost a lot of friends because of this, but at the same time I have gained some as well. The ones I have gained are those who experiance the same things I have delt with.

  I am glad for my wife that she does not feal freaked out, nore does she judge me for being different. Down the road in finding the right woman a lot of the ones I've dated ran the other way as soon as I told them about my diapers. Others got mad and said, I'm not gonna be your mamma and change you, so forget about it!

  Even though I'm starting to come to terms with my incontinence. The only ones who d.on't know is my work place. The reason I don't share this here is because I work in fast food, and I would probably lose my job. It is very hard to get through a shift because a diaper will only hold so much until break time. The I will go change in the bathroom before clocking back in.

  Even though I have this problem I try not to let it get me down. After all this time I have started to become comfortable in my diapers, and not be ashamed of something I have no control over.
If you have ever dealt with this in your life, don't worry about if others will accept you. Just be yourself and love you for you. Save up to 70% on Medical Supplies
Click here to save on Medical Supplies including incontinence, wound care and urologicals!

No comments:

Post a Comment